Love as a Healer
The doctor you are seeking is within you
Love has many definitions but from a spiritual perspective, it is the natural state of Being. Other states only come from a place of reaction whereas love is something naturally felt.
I do not only mean interpersonal love, I am directly talking about the state in which you are in harmony with the Source... Of course, some relationships are a reflection of this but many of them are only composed of anxious and possesive attachment. It is not love. It may be egoic connection. To be more clear, we tend to seek what we are lacking in others and thus "complete" ourselves.
Life itself is not a straight path, it is spiral which means that you continually come to realize that everything you thought to be true once was a mere illusion of mind.
You will see the truth sooner or later. Although it is mentally painful, knowing the truth is better than believing in lies.
If you want true love, look inside yourself. It is that close yet you deny it. After accessing the true love, it will show up in world as an unconditionally loving partner too...